Physical, Mental, and Sexual Health

VMGCAG

Updated on July 17, 2026

Why It's Important

Note: If you or someone you know is considering suicide, please contact the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline (dial 988). Call the Trevor Project (dial 1-866-488-7386) for LGBTQ+-specific support. Both hotlines are available 24 hours a day, seven days a week. All calls are confidential. For more information, visit the Lifeline or the Trevor Project online.

The incidence of mental health conditions among college students continue to increase,1 highlighting an ongoing need for understanding and empathy. According to the Mayo Clinic,2 44% of college students reported symptoms of depression during the 2021-2022 academic year. More than 1 in 5 U.S. adults3 have a mental health condition.

Additionally, 1 in 6 American women has been the victim of rape or an attempted rape, according to RAINN.4 On college campuses, there are two sexual assaults for every robbery, and college-age victims often do not report their experiences to law enforcement.5

Language around health and wellness must be inclusive of all people's backgrounds and experiences. Sexual, mental, and physical health include complex and diverse topics. Our communications about health and wellness should take a stigma-free, nonjudgmental approach.

Physical, Mental, and Sexual Health

Mental Health

Historically, there has been stigma surrounding discussions about mental health. Speaking with compassion and understanding honors people's diverse mental health journeys and opens avenues for support and intervention.

Avoid Saying

mental illness

Consider Replacing With

mental health condition, disorder, issue, challenge

Why This Matters

Not all mental health conditions are illnesses or diseases. Using these words can misrepresent an individual and/or cause shame and stigma. Use the best phrase for the specific context.

Avoid Saying

they're struggling with/suffering from a mental health condition

Consider Replacing With

they have a mental health condition

Why This Matters

Use "have" rather than "struggling with" or "suffering from" to speak neutrally about a person's mental health. However, do not correct how someone uses these phrases to refer to themself or their own experiences.

Suicide

Avoid language that associates suicide or suicidal thoughts with crime, sin, blame, or moral obligation.

Avoid Saying

committed suicide, killed themself

Consider Replacing With

died by suicide, took their own life, ended their own life

Why This Matters

The word "commit" implies a criminal act and casts blame on the person.

Avoid Saying

they are suicidal

Consider Replacing With

they are experiencing suicidal thoughts

Why This Matters

The preferred phrase represents a temporary state rather than describing a person in an absolute way.

Avoid Saying

unsuccessful suicide attempt

Consider Replacing With

nonfatal suicide attempt

Why This Matters

A nonfatal suicide attempt is not a failure. Be careful not to use judgmental language ("unsuccessful") when discussing such a sensitive topic.

Eating Disorders

Individuals of all genders, backgrounds, sizes, and identities experience eating disorders. Assumptions and stereotypes about eating disorders and those affected promote stigma and limit people's access to treatment. Avoid descriptions that quantify an individual's weight, clothing size, food intake, activity level, or changes in body measurements.

Substance Use

When discussing substance use, disorders, or addiction, use nonjudgmental language that does not assign personal blame.

Don't Use

  • substance abuse, drug abuse
  • junkie, user, drug addict, drug abuser

Do Use

  • substance use, harmful use of a substance
  • person with substance use disorder, person who uses drugs or substances

Safer Sex Terminology

Avoid connecting a person's sexual activity with their moral character. This harmful connection leads to stigma and enforces the negative belief that an activity or person can be wrong, abnormal, or amoral. Discuss sexual health in neutral or affirming terms to provide nonjudgmental information.

Avoid Saying

safe sex

Consider Replacing With

safer sex

Why This Matters

"Safer sex" challenges the idea that there is "safe" and "unsafe" sex. This term encompasses a spectrum of safer sex practices like disinfecting sex toys and testing for sexually transmitted infections.

Avoid Saying

infected

Consider Replacing With

contracted, transmitted, acquired

Why This Matters

Because of the negative connotations and blame associated with the term "infected," use other phrases.

Avoid Saying

clean/dirty

Consider Replacing With

tested negative/positive for [a specific disease or condition]

Why This Matters

Connecting a disease status or test result to concepts of cleanliness and dirtiness contributes to harmful stigmas and misconceptions about sexually transmitted infections.

Avoid Saying

promiscuous

Consider Replacing With

has multiple sex partners

Why This Matters

A person with multiple sex partners is not necessarily taking risks or being "promiscuous." Avoid using this term.

Menstruation

Pads, tampons, and menstrual cups are used by all genders. When discussing menstruation, use phrases such as "people who menstruate," rather than just "women," though it may be appropriate to use both. Avoid unnecessarily gendered phrases like "feminine hygiene products." Instead, use "menstrual products."

Reproductive Rights

Use gender-inclusive language when discussing reproductive rights. Transgender, nonbinary, gender fluid, and gender-nonconforming individuals all experience reproductive injustice alongside cisgender women.

Sexual Violence

When writing about sexual abuse, it's important to mention resources — such as hotlines, warning signs, and support groups — that could help readers get help or gather more information. The following is an example of this:

Help is available. The National Sexual Assault Hotline is available 24 hours a day at 1-800-656-4673. If you or someone you know has experienced sexual assault, please seek legal counsel. If you are experiencing a life-threatening situation, seek help or dial 911.

There are precise legal differences between terms like sexual assault, rape, harassment, and sexual abuse, so use specific and careful language when referencing this subject.6 See the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission7 and the American Psychological Association8 for legal definitions of these terms.

Avoid Saying (in the context of sexual violence)

sex scandal

Consider Replacing With

sexual violence, sexual assault, sexual abuse, rape

Why This Matters

The phrase "sex scandal" diminishes and sensationalizes the crime.

Avoid Saying (in the context of sexual violence)

sex or intercourse

Consider Replacing With

rape, unwanted sexual penetration, sexual violence, sexual assault

Why This Matters

Using the right term lets the public understand the act was one of violence rather than mutual consent.

Avoid Saying (in the context of sexual violence)

perform oral sex

Consider Replacing With

forced oral and genital contact

Why This Matters

Describe the act accurately instead of using a word that portrays the victim as a primary actor.

Avoid Saying (in the context of sexual violence)

fondle

Consider Replacing With

grope, unwanted touching

Why This Matters

Use language that signifies that the act was unwanted.

Avoid Saying (in the context of sexual violence)

engaged in

Consider Replacing With

was forced to

Why This Matters

Avoid language that implies that the victim consented to the act.

Avoid Saying (in the context of sexual violence)

victim admits, victim confesses

Consider Replacing With

victim reports, victim says

Why This Matters

Use neutral and objective language to describe the report.

Avoid Saying (in the context of sexual violence)

accuser

Consider Replacing With

alleged victim, survivor (if perpetrator has been convicted)

Why This Matters

Use the word "alleged" when necessary prior to conviction.

Avoid Saying (in the context of sexual violence)

accused

Consider Replacing With

alleged perpetrator, perpetrator (if perpetrator has been convicted)

Why This Matters

Use the word "alleged" when necessary prior to conviction.

Victim vs. Survivor

The term victim is typically used when referring to a person who has recently experienced sexual violence or when discussing a crime. Survivor is often used to refer to a person who is going through the recovery process when discussing the effects of sexual violence. Sometimes, writers may find it appropriate to alternate between the two terms. Both terms are acceptable, but it's best to be respectful and ask for the individual's preference.

Impact of Sexual Violence Across Genders

While women experience sexual violence at higher rates than men, people of all gender identities can experience sexual violence.9 The rates are disproportionately high for people who are trans and nonbinary compared to those who are cisgender, but studies frequently only have identifier options for women and men.10 People who do not fit into one of these gender categories are either misidentified or removed from the data collection. People of color also experience sexual violence at higher rates than white people.

When citing any data source, be mindful of the data's limitations and indicate if any groups were excluded from the data collection.

For more advice related to gender, see the Gender and Sexuality section of our Conscious Language Guide.

Trigger and Content Warnings Explained

While trigger and content warnings are not often part of people's everyday verbal conversations, they pop up in written communications and other forms of media regularly. The purpose of these warnings is to let readers, viewers, and/or listeners know that upcoming topics cover certain information that may be challenging or literally triggering. This gives people a chance to decide what content they want to consume, in case they wish to avoid activating or "triggering" any negative effects of past or ongoing trauma. Trigger and content warnings can flag topics that include, but are not limited to, sexual violence, substance use, suicide, and eating disorders.

Reviewed by

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Angelique Geehan

Contributing Reviewer